Taking Back Financial Control: Mindset, Support, and Real-World Strategies

At Purse Strings, we believe money is freedom—and that every woman deserves the confidence and clarity to make decisions that support her future. But when life feels chaotic or uncertain, it’s easy to freeze up around finances. That’s why we invited Jeannie Dougherty, a Purse Strings Approved Professional and financial coach, to join us for a recent Money Talks session. In a conversation packed with real-life wisdom, Jeannie broke down simple, powerful ways to regain control—starting from the inside out.

Focus on What You Can Control

When things feel unpredictable, start by grounding yourself in what is within your control. That might mean how you spend, how you show up, or even how you talk to yourself about money. “We can’t control the markets or the headlines,” Jeannie shared. “But we can control our choices, our reactions, and how we prepare.” Whether it’s reviewing your accounts, making a call you’ve been putting off, or just writing down your money goals—those small steps matter. You don’t have to do everything, but you can do something.

Surround Yourself with the Right Support

You were never meant to do this alone. Jeannie emphasized the power of relationships when it comes to money—friends to bounce ideas off, mentors to guide you, and professionals to offer expert insights. That’s exactly why Purse Strings exists: to connect women with vetted financial professionals who get it—and are ready to help, without judgment.

Work With a Pro—Not Just Google

When you’re stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure, turn to someone who’s trained to help. That could be a money coach like Jeannie, a financial advisor, a bookkeeper, or a tax pro. Don’t let DIY overwhelm derail your progress. “You deserve support that helps you move forward,” Jeannie said. “Not just tips that make you feel like you’re behind.”

Build a Healthier Money Mindset

Your mindset matters. If you’re constantly thinking, I’m bad with money or I’ll never figure this out, it’s going to feel impossible to make progress. Jeannie recommends:

• Taking stock of the messages you’ve internalized about money
• Practicing simple mindset resets like deep breathing, movement, or journaling
• Asking: Is this purchase or habit supporting the life I want?
• Money doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Small shifts lead to real change.

You’re Allowed to Make Money—and Keep It

One of our favorite takeaways from Jeannie? The idea of a money-making practice. That might look like setting intentions each week, checking in on your goals, or carving out time to work on your side hustle. It’s about treating your financial life with care and intention—just like you would a relationship.

Ready to Feel More in Control?

Financial empowerment starts with clarity, community, and the right conversations. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or uncertain, you’re not alone—and you’re not stuck.

Join us for our weekly Money Talks session, where we break down real-life money topics. To explore our Purse Strings Approved Professionals, check out our directory to find an expert!